tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3514789760551813827.post4726389806661128500..comments2023-07-28T13:51:52.609+01:00Comments on Love Cat: Traingular Walls Are Closing InLove Cathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12267255906776748257noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3514789760551813827.post-77103315466706680362010-09-24T15:58:56.367+01:002010-09-24T15:58:56.367+01:00It was the lack of FIGHT that was so infuriating h...It was the lack of FIGHT that was so infuriating here. You are a prize catch dammit, and he should have been sleeves rolled up wooing you back and pushing those insecurities aside. YEAH!Shaunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17972771695771196585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3514789760551813827.post-24936804524337037852010-09-23T22:40:02.380+01:002010-09-23T22:40:02.380+01:00Geez, I jus can't help but wade in here to. I ...Geez, I jus can't help but wade in here to. I kinda think he should be begging you for forgivness....really grovelling. I think he sounds like a good fella on the whole but those nasty insecurities of his will still be around.<br />Anyway - your life rocks, so exciting!! keep us informed on updates.<br />Bron xx (formerly Anon in London)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3514789760551813827.post-57848225969673933332010-09-23T03:12:20.251+01:002010-09-23T03:12:20.251+01:00All great questions. Can't wait to see how he ...All great questions. Can't wait to see how he tackles them. His comment about you seeing someone & how he wouldn't have suggested a reconciliation bothers me though. Aren't men by nature competitive? Wouldn't that fuel a person to reconnect, not the opposite? <br />He says he didn't bring it up because he realized it would make things difficult on you, but just a few short weeks ago HE BROKE YOUR HEART. How noble of him, now to consider your feelings. <br /><br />I say meet up, talk it out, and put him on the fresh start list if that's what you're feeling. I definitely wouldn't let this overshadow your new romance with the youngin.' After all, if Moonraker gets a wild hair and does this again, you'll have ended a fun, possibly awesome relationship with someone who already knows how awesome you are & doesn't need to freak out like a little girl, break up with you, then wait until you're with someone else to realize it... <br /><br />PS as you know, I'm on steroids and I have rage. ;)Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16540050985010787833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3514789760551813827.post-40284998715423229042010-09-22T22:50:45.701+01:002010-09-22T22:50:45.701+01:00Those questions all make good sense in theory. But...Those questions all make good sense in theory. But as someone who has been in this position, I would prepare yourself for not getting a single satisfying answer. Not that he won't say the right things.. but really what else can he say? e.g. is it going to be different... his answer will obviously be yes. And he probably means it. But I would hypothesize that the only thing that will make you feel confident in the relationship again is him SHOWING you change. I guess that's a long winded way of reminding Moonraker that actions speak louder than words :P ...and reminding you that even if he says all the right things they might leave you feeling cold if you don't believe it. Go with your gut!<br />Love, KaitAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3514789760551813827.post-51368491435960479112010-09-22T21:55:15.399+01:002010-09-22T21:55:15.399+01:00Spot on questions - covering I think all the misgi...Spot on questions - covering I think all the misgivings I'm having particularly the one about backing off cos you were seeing someone else. And I just have this lurking feeling that if you were to get together again then every time you hit a bumpy patch (as we all do) you'd get something cast up along the lines of how quickly you started seeing someone else and forgot about him (not true I know but I think that will bug him - but I may be wrong) Don't know what to advise about Toy Boy - he sounds so lovely but hopefully after your meeting with Moonraker you'll be able to see the pathway forward. ZxxZannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04374441911002511628noreply@blogger.com